Posted by FamilyGuy on September 19, 1998 at 14:29:07:
In Reply to: Re: How Do I Get My Husband To Get Into It? posted by He_N_She Pump on September 13, 1998 at 05:21:58:
Amen for honesty!
Tell the truth. Tell you husband that you had this "secret fantasy" about him pumping and how large he got in your fantasy. Pick a time during the week when you and he can have some "private time" and have the equipment for the fantasy ready. Set the atmosphere to whatever he will respond to (candles, champagne, aerosol cheese wiz) and have pump nearby.
A WORD OF CAUTION:
Since he has never pumped before, you want it to be a pleasurable experience. If you know more about pumping than he does at this moment, then part of your fantasy should be YOU operating the pump. It could be the first and LAST time your man pumps if he has a bad experience from overpumping, using too high a pressure or blistering.
Make it a short session of no more than 30 minutes with at least three breaks. Make sure that you use a good lubrication such as vaseline which you could apply on him (adding to the eroticism). Position the cylinder and tug on it only a couple of times. MAKE SURE HE IS NOT UNCOMFORTABLE. Release the pressure after say five minutes. Wait a minute and then vacuum again, this time for 10 minutes. While it's on and his cock is inaccessible, you could do some cock-teasing by licking the cylinder and gazing lovingly up into his eyes. Repeat a couple of more times. After 30 minutes of this cycle, you're ready for your usual lovemaking. Only this time, he's going to be much better. Praise and compliment him and the wonders of the pump.
Be sure that if your birth control (if that's an issue) is NOT condoms because the vaseline will cause condoms to break. If condoms are your method, follow the pumping session with a sensuous shower (real purpose: to wash off vaseline residue).
If your guy is like most guys, he is likely to respond very positively to your taking such initiates.
Good luck and happy pumping.