Posted by phil on October 23, 1998 at 03:49:07:
In Reply to: honest responses only, please posted by CRJ on October 07, 1998 at 11:37:44:
I'll try to answer your question by telling you where I am coming from.
I have the same fantasy. Through self-reflection, I have decided
that the force of the fantasy comes from two areas:
1. You probably have the desire to see your wife receive the most
pleasure possible and think a larger dick will provide that.
Her pleasure is probably what gives you pleasure. I am only guessing - it is so with me.
2. You probably feel at some level that your dick is not manly enough.
Carrying out the fantasy is a way of testing the "thing you fear most" -- that your
wife will like a bigger one better than you. We usually invest a lot
psychic energy in things we most fear.
I don't have what would be described as a small dick. It is 8" long and 5.5" around.
It isn't, however, a huge one either and I have wondered also if a larger man would
provide more pleasure. I don't know if any of this is close to your
feelings or experience, but I hope it is helpful.