Posted by Helping Hand on April 15, 1999 at 06:22:13:
In Reply to: !!! PLEASE someone help!!!!! posted by small load on April 14, 1999 at 15:58:45:
As Skinny said, drink lots of water to help increase your semen volume. In order to help you squirt, you need to increase the muscular strength in your PC muscle. Do Kegal exercises to strengthen the PC muscle.
To help you get the hang of Kegals, the next time you're pissing, contract your PC muscle so that the flow of urine stops. Once you get good at this, then you can do your Kegals while you are not pissing. Check the net to find work out schedules if you need one.
Another way to help you shoot far is to constrict your urethra during ejaculation. Try wearing a dick/cock ring or just squeeze the underside of your penis during ejaculation. This forces the semen thru a smaller tube, which increase its velocity, resulting in more distance. Be careful here, don't constrict too much, otherwise, if the semen can't shoot out the urethra, it will back up into your bladder. Repeated instances of retrograde ejaculation can result in damage to the valve structure of the bladder. This could eventually lead to incontinence. You will know you have done this if you have an orgasm, but no semen comes out. Now don't let this warning scare you into not using constriction, just be careful. When I was in my teens, I use to masturbate and squeeze my dick when I came so that no semen came out (I didn't want to clean up the mess). After I found out this was bad, I stopped it. 10 years later, I have no problems with my bladder. So if you happen to constrict too much every once in a while, don't sweat it, just don't make a habit of it. Nowadays, I wear a 2 inch ring around my cock and balls, and a 1.5 inch ring just around my dick. Since I have an average dick, this constriction is just enough to feel good and help me shoot far, but not enough to cause any problems. If you want to try out a ring, run down to your hardware store and look in the fastener section near the hooks you put into pegboard, this is where I usually find rings. Get a couple of diameters and find the one(s) that fit you best. Good luck and let us know how things turn out. Have a good one.